CAUSES OF DIVORCE

We are coming face to face with lots of divorces in casual life.Have you ever thought about why are the numbers of divorced people increasing day by day?Marriage is an establishment which has problems like the other establishments.When the problems aren’t stopped, unfortunately marriage comes to end with divorce.There are three main reasons why people get divorce:financial problems,social-culture differences and lack of communicating.
The first reason of divorce is financial problems in the marriages.Financial problems always take place in marriages.For example husband and wife have trouble in financial problems and one of them doesn’t put up with this condition.So discussions occur between them and these discussions worry them.When they make each other upset, their loves start to lessen and they can’t put up with each other.As a result these leads spouses to get divorce.
Another reason for divorce is social-culturel differences between spouses.For example wife and husband are brought up in a different conditions such as woman is brought up in a village and man is brought up in a town.When they get marry this leads them to have problem in that woman wants to go to modern cafes or large stores but man doesn’t know these.So he feels that his wife looks down on him and they start to debate and this makes them hurt.As a consequence it is unavoidable that they want to get divorce.

The last reason of divorce is lack of community between spouses.For example if husband doesn’t care and speak with his wife, his wife feels alone.And this makes them two foreign people in the same house.So wife or husband try to find happiness on other things and maybe this leads them to cheat each other with another women or men Consequently it is inevitable that spouses want to get divorce.

To sum up we may suffer from divorce.A good marriage brings us a happy life, happy children…If we don’t want to be affected by divorce we should be careful about choosing husband and wife.We should choose our spouse according to our financial, social-culturel and communicating conditions.
Firdevs YÜKSEL
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